Showing posts with label Texas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Texas. Show all posts

Monday, April 29, 2013

So Westboro "Baptist Church" showed up here in Texas at the memorial service in West for the first responders who lost their lives in the explosion. The Chief of Police promptly had all 20 or so of them arrested and put into holding cells (all the men in one and all the women in another) When they told him he couldn't do that, he let them know HE could. Since he hadn't officially charged them, he could hold them for 24 hours before he had to charge them or let them go! (plenty of time to hold the memorial service). I guess Westboro didn't think it through too well... This is Texas. As quickly as we fry people down here, did they really think they would be allowed to show that kind of disrespect?? Their photos were also released to the other small towns surrounding West, where services would be denied to them. Sometimes you just have to admire the way we do things down here in Texas!

Monday, December 17, 2012

Tragedy In The U.S.


My mind was still reeling from the local news reports Friday  morning. On Thursday morning, local business man drew a gun on police officers that resulted in his death. I responded by saying, "This can't be happening here. Not in this town. You hear about this kind of thing happening in larger cities, but not here." The more I thought about it, I realized that it does happen here; and we have been directly affected by it.

Several years back, a gang war erupted in our small city. A young mentally disabled child was killed by gunfire, and the war grew out of hand. My husband and I were shopping with the children in the local mall when the battle came to it's peak. There was fighting, and guns and knives were being waved around as we tried to protect our boys. The stores closed their doors locking us amidst the violent altercation. All my husband and I could do to protect our boys was back them into a corner and shield them with our bodies. Officers soon got the skirmish under control, and we were directed out of the mall. I never realized until now, that it was a good two years before I would walk through those mall doors once again.

Though it was a horrifying experience, I never thought that I would hear of a person shooting at police officers in my town. But, it did happen, and the result was the loss of the life to the local business man along with the discovery of 131 firearms and 63,000 rounds of ammunition. The gunman's family members are in mourning, and the officer who had been left with little choice but to fire back is undergoing the required treatment for officers that take a life. Two families are in turmoil because of this needless altercation.

My mind was still reeling about the battle that ensued on the other side of the freeway from my home. I thought of how lucky we are to be safe from gun violence when the news broke about Newtown, Connecticut. I cannot begin to imagine how the parents must feel. As I watched the news in terror, tears flowed freely from my eyes. Those poor innocent babies, teachers, and faculty ~ Charlotte Bacon, Daniel Barden, Rachel Davino, Olivia Engel, Josephine Gay, Ana M. Marquez-Greene, Dylan Hockley, Dawn Hochsprung, Madeleine F. Hsu, Catherine V. Hubbard, Chase Kowalski, Jesse Lewis, James Mattioli, Grace McDonnell, Anne Marie Murphy, Emilie Parker, Jack Pinto, Noah Pozner, Caroline Previdi, Jessica Rekos, Avielle Richman, Lauren Rousseau, Mary Sherlach, Victoria Soto, Benjamin Wheeler, and Allison N. Wyatt.

Today, the news is still engrossed with coverage for the horrifying massacre. My heart aches for the family and friends of the children and faculty of the small school, as it aches for the family and friends of the gunman. We could never understand what drove him to draw one of his four guns on the students and teachers ending their lives. What traumatic event did this young man undergo to make him feel the need to take the lives of others? It was recently released he was the victim of bullying at a school he attended. Could this be the reason for his mental anguish?

I am further horrified at the probable repercussions toward children and adults with autism due to guessing game the media is irresponsibly playing about the possible mental health issues the gunman may or may not have had. I have extensively researched, bipolar disorder, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), and Reactive Attachment Disorders (RAD) both in University and through my employment as a Child Protective Services Investigator. Each of these four disorders are often misdiagnosed, meaning a person with these disorders exhibit traits with another one of these disorders. I find it hard to believe that this man had an ASD, as children with an ASD are less likely to be violent toward other people. For a matter of fact, most people with an ASD are likely to be law abiding citizens and have a need to follow laws and rules.

If people with autism do exhibit violent tendencies, it is more likely to be in the form of a self-injurious behavior or an INSTANTANEOUS outburst due to SUDDEN frustration and stress. They are not likely to plan out a violent event. The truth is, no one is certain whether this man had any of these disorders because diagnoses can be incorrect; but it is more likely that it would have been a disorder that a symptom is a risk taking behavior such as ADHD, RAD, or bipolar disorder. I want to make it quite clear that I am not saying all people with these disorders are dangerous. Anyone, even people with no history of mental illness or mental health issues, can snap, just as they all can be perfectly fine.

My fears are founded as my son with autism has worked so hard throughout his life to be accepted, and now, we fear that people are going to treat him like there is something wrong with him because of the media's quick response to put the blame off on autism. Just to think that all of these 17 years of hard work for my son could be all taken away because of one man's actions and the media's misrepresentation of autism breaks my heart.

Regardless, it is clear that something is very wrong with this country. While I was learning of our local gunfire incident, I also learned of the mall shooting in Oregon, where Cindy Ann Yuille and Steven Forsyth lost their lives. Then, of course there is the Newton incident on Friday. Saturday, California was rocked by the gunfire at an open air mall where twenty shots were fired in the air luckily not hitting anyone. Sunday night, two police officers, Corporal David Gogian and Jeff Atherly, were shot in the head and killed by a gunman in the parking lot of a grocery store in Kansas. This shooter has lost his life in another standoff with police officers in Topeka, Kansas. In November, a thirteen year old girl, Lourdes Guzman, was shot and killed in front of her seven year old sister on a private school bus in Florida.

We, as a country, still have not healed from the Sikh Temple shooting in Wisconsin where Bhai Seeta Singh, Bhai Parkash Singh, Bhai Ranjit Singh, Satwant Singh Kaleka, Subegh Singh, and Parmjit Kaur Toor lost their lives. We still have not healed from the Aurora theater shooting where Jonathon Blunk, Alexander "AJ" Boik, Jessie Childress, Gordon Cowden, Jessica Ghawi, John Larimer, Matt McQuinn, Micayla Medek, Veronica Moser-Sullivan, Alex Sullivan, Alexander Teves, Rebecca Wingo, and the unborn child of Ashley Moser lost their lives, as well as the numerous people injured (Petra Anderson, Adan Avila, Brandon Axelrod, Tony Billipando, Christina Blanche, Maria Carbonell, Alejandra Cardona-Lamas, Louis Duran, Craig Enlund, Alex Expinoza, Jacqueline Fry, Yousef Gharbi, Zachary Golditch, Munirah Gravelly, Eugene Han, Jay Jenkins, Bonnie Kate, Jasmine Kennedy, Marcus Kizzar, Patricia Legaretta, Brenton Lowak, Ryan Lumba, Caleb Medley, Ashley Moser, Stephen Moton, Joshua Nowlan, Pierce O'Farrill, Prodeo Patria, Rita Paulina, Christopher Rapoza, Carli Richards, Dion Roseborough, Carey Rottman, Lucas Smith, Heather Snyder, Ferrah Soudana, Catherine Streib, Jamison Toews, Denise Traynom-Axelrod, Marcus Weaver, Michael White, David Williams, Allie Young, Jansen Young, Samantha Yowler, Gage Hankins, Mckayla Hicks, Stephen Barton, Nickelas Gallup, Evan Farris, Jennifer Avila, Jarrell Brooks, Amanda Hernandez-Memije, Kelly Lewis, Bonnie Pourcian, Anggiat Mora, Ethan Rohrs, and Nathan Juranek).

These are only a few of the violent shootings that have rocked our country and ripped at the hearts of mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, and friends country wide. I have no answers as to what should be done. I have no clue what motivates people to take the lives of innocent people. I do know that all of the people who have fell victim to such violence need to be remembered because once we realize that this could have been us, and it could be our families suffering, then, and only then, can we do something to attempt to end the violence.



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Original Poem by Isha Jade

Facts About Autism:


Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (NIV Matthew 19:14)

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

The Osteen Factor

Homelessness is a major problem in the United States. Unfortunately, many Christians turn a blind eye to the problem and act as if they do not see it, it does not exist. I am here to let you know that it does exist and how Joel Osteen’s ministry factors into this epidemic.

In the United States, there are approximately 1.5 million homeless children, and this number is continually on the rise. These children did not ask to be homeless, and many of their parents did not ask to be homeless as well. It has become acceptable in the United States to assume that people live in poverty by choice to and that people are homeless by choice. Though that very well may be the case for many people who find themselves living on the streets, it is not always the case.

For instance, I never chose to be homeless, but it did happen to us. In 2003, we were finally able to afford health insurance, but we had to wait for open enrollment in early 2004. Unfortunately, when January 2004 came around, insurance costs had doubled from the previous year; and once again, we were not able to afford the high insurance rates. Therefore, we did not enroll, as we had to choose between health insurance or food for our children.

Two months passed, and life was continuing uneventfully until one cold morning late February. My husband returned home from working the night shift as a forklift operator. He made it into the home and fell to the floor. He had ruptured a disk and slipped another. It had been raining the night before, and the roof of the warehouse where my husband worked leaked. The forklift had hit the puddle in the floor and spun out before it slammed against the wall.

My husband’s employer lied in court saying that my husband had been hurt at home. However, she reported to the disability office that my husband had been hurt at work. We had won the court case due to her inability to tell the truth. However, our lawyer had forgotten to file the medical records including the MRI results. Without the medical records, my husband was not awarded any funds for treatment or missed time. The employer even refused to pay out his saved vacation time and sick time. As a result we lost everything, including our home.

With two small children, we had gone from having everything we ever wanted and needed to having absolutely nothing at all. I know what you are thinking, what about me? Why did I not work? One of my small children was disabled, and I was providing him with extensive care and therapies. I did try to work, but we saw significant regression with my eldest son.

So, as you can plainly see, we were two average middle class parents who worked very hard to care for and support our children. We did not ask to lose all of our belongings or our home. So, I ask you not to be quick judging the homeless.

Of the millions of homeless in the United States, there are an estimated 10,000 homeless individuals in Houston, Texas. Of these 10,000, more than half receive no shelter. Also of the 10,000, an estimated 5,400 are children. So what does this mean? Many of the unsheltered are children. In Houston, it has become illegal to feed the homeless if you are feeding more than five people without explicit approval via a permit from the city and certified kitchen staff.

So, how does Joel Osteen fit into the equation? He preaches, “God wants us to prosper financially, to have plenty of money, to fulfill the destiny He has laid out for us.” Osteen has proven that he believes what he preaches, as his church spent 90 million dollars for renovations. Can you imagine what 90 million dollars could have done to help the 5,400 homeless children in Osteen’s own community? That kind of money could have built a shelter to house the families until they could get on their feet. It could have fed the children every day for 1,667 days (4.5 years), or developed job placement programs to help the parents provide for their children.


Instead of helping the needy, the money was spent on a golden globe, two waterfalls, theatrical lighting, and three theater size monitor screens for better viewing of the pastor. The only thing missing in the church is a cross, an image of Christ, and an image of God. Furthermore, Osteen’s church spends over 22 million dollars a year on advertising and 9 million a year on the maintenance of the exuberant facilities. Lakewood Church spends a total of 72.6 million dollars annually on expenses, none of which are spent on helping the needy in the church’s community. Again, the money used for expenses could easily feed those 5,400 homeless children for 3.65 years. As homeless children in Osteen’s community sleep under the bridges, Osteen and family reside in a 10.5 million dollar mansion because God wants him to? Osteen claims, “It's God's will for you to live in prosperity instead of poverty.” Is it? When considering Osteen’s sermons, remember what Christ has taught us:


“There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores. “The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’ “But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been set in place, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’ “He answered, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my family, for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’ “Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’ “‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, ‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’ “He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’” (Luke 16:19-31 NIV)

“There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day: And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores, And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores. And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried; And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom. And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue, for I am tormented in this flame. But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented. And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence. Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.” (Luke 16:19-31 KJV)

“As Jesus looked up, he saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins. “Truly I tell you,” he said, “this poor widow has put in more than all the others. All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.” (Luke 21:1-4 NIV)

“And he looked up, and saw the rich men casting their gifts into the treasury. And he saw also a certain poor widow casting in thither two mites. And he said, Of a truth I say unto you, that this poor widow hath cast in more than they all: For all these have of their abundance cast in unto the offerings of God: but she of her penury hath cast in all the living that she had. (Luke 21:1-4 KJV)

Also remember that Christ preached against big churches, and Lakewood church is a mega-church. Christ taught that our church should be a home church, a small community. He warned that when our church becomes too large, it is difficult for us to recognize when our brothers and sisters are in need. He called us into a communal way of life. Focusing on our own wealth keeps us from seeing the bigger picture, as it has done for Osteen and his parishioners. 10,000 homeless in Houston, 5,400 homeless children in Houston, children who live on the streets, but they are not seen, and they are not heard, and Lakewood Church spends 72.6 million dollars per year on expenses. Think on this, 72.6 million dollars split between the 1.5 million homeless in the United States is $48. I know for a fact that $48 dollars is enough to feed one person for an entire week if they shop smart.

“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” (Matthew 19:14 NIV)

“Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 19:14 NIV)

Furthermore, Christ warned us several times about false prophets. I have not found one passage in the Bible that tells me that Christ wants us to be wealthy. I challenge you to find the passages that Osteen preaches; and while you search, remember what Christ preached.

“Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them. (Matthew 7:15-20 NIV)

“Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.” (Matthew 7:15-20 KJV)

Further Reading:

I truly believe there is one of many ministers from the recent past that truly understood Christ’s message (I am not limiting it to one, as I do not know all of the ministers in the world). This minister was Eberhard Arnold.

Eberhard Arnold stated, “Greed and vanity, possession and property must perish because they are worthless for the eternal. Even the highest gifts of language, knowledge, and prophecy belong to time and will perish with it. Love, however, is simply life itself, life in every sense, full and everlasting life.” (A Testimony to Church Community, Page 26) Osteen should through Eberhard’s example of community. Eberhard’s communal church reached out to underprivileged youth in an effort to educate them. The church did not allow the children to starve on the streets hidden by alleyways and under bridges.

Also, Arnold warns us of the evils of material goods. To him, material goods must benefit God’s purpose. Arnold feels that man must rise above temptations in order to win God’s kingdom back; then, and only then, God will return to rule. Arnold also reminded us that God exists beyond man-made boundaries. He reaches the farthest expanses of the universe. We must become worthy of God. Arnold proposes unity as God’s purpose.

Arnold sees the oneness of God and the oneness of man as this purpose. He tells us when we are in isolation, living the way we do today, we are unable to truly live. We will truly be alive once broken free from the shackles of our own existence, our own isolationism. When we accept God, we become free from struggle. The Kingdom of God is within us, no matter where we reside. This reminds me of Acts 2:5 where Luke tells us of the diversity of the followers of Christ. Next, Arnold understood that we all have sin, “the beast in us,” and it fights us every step of the way. He felt that we must turn our thoughts into actions and we must keep our thoughts beyond the flesh. We need to be less self-centered to find true freedom. This freedom will lead us to Christ.

It sickens me to learn that Osteen preaches that Christ wants us to be wealthy when we live in a world with evident homelessness, a world that is not accepting of Christian values, and a world where the gap between the impoverished and wealthy is consistently expanding.

I come from a family of ministers, police officers, nurses, teachers, and other civil servant workers. I do not recall a time when any of the ministers lived off of the church that they led. Yes, I mean these ministers had jobs outside their church to support their families. Many ministers do preach for the love of Christ not for the love of money. They have listened to the word of Jesus.

“These twelve Jesus sent out with the following instructions: “Do not go among the Gentiles or enter any town of the Samaritans. Go rather to the lost sheep of Israel. As you go, proclaim this message: ‘The kingdom of heaven has come near.’ Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy, drive out demons. Freely you have received; freely give. Do not get any gold or silver or copper to take with you in your belts—no bag for the journey or extra shirt or sandals or a staff, for the worker is worth his keep. (Matthew 10:5-10 NIV)

“These twelve Jesus sent forth, and commanded them, saying, Go not into the way of the Gentiles, and into any city of the Samaritans enter ye not: But go rather to the lost sheep of the house of Israel. And as ye go, preach, saying, The kingdom of heaven is at hand. Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give. Provide neither gold, nor silver, nor brass in your purses, nor scrip for your journey, neither two coats, neither shoes, nor yet staves: for the workman is worthy of his meat.” (Matthew 10:5-10 KJV)

Following the word of Christ and living truly as a Christian means to follow all scripture without picking and choosing which law Christ has laid down before you. Our leaders should not behave in a way that distracts us from Christian living, and they certainly should not teach us in a way that further distracts us from Christian living.

All pictures posted are of the homeless in the Houston area. Some estimates show there are more than 11,000 in Houston. 

Statistics can be found in the links below:
photograph links: two boys, mother and children, under the bridge, homeless with cart, homeless shelter, boy eating, boy with chocolate milk, teens, Lakewood Church